The friendship of communication...

Trista is much happier today...

Her and her best friend Jen made time to have a heart to heart talk and all misconceptions were laid to rest...

That strong bond that is known as a single word called - friendship...

Yes, they share that bond well...



It comes to mind that finding the balance between lives that are filled with busy schedules, that are often conflicting, is not as easy as it once was...


That fact that is not easy, does not mean it is not important to do.


I find myself often wishing that I had more time to share with my friends.

Even doing my blog posts are often in the middle of the night.


However busy you are, scheduling time to communicate is so important.


To let our friends know that we very much love them.

Have you taken the time to let your friends know that they are very much loved and needed?

You can't take for granted it is just something that they know, for just like a foreign language you used to speak but now never use, it is starts to be forgotten...

But have you noticed that sharing new moments with a friend, the time you spent away from each other is almost as if it was never there?


For gaps in time of a friendship have no meaning when you allow the "C" word word to blossom once again...

Communication is that which brings together - that which only appears to be separate...

Communication is what forges friendships - it is the fire that keeps them strong...




On a larger level we in America spent trillions of dollars on defense. How much of that money could be saved if we spent just a little money on great communicators?

Why not hire Tony Robbins to be an ambassador for America? Can you imagine how many friendships we could be forging in the world?

Instead of sending professional communicators we send our children with guns - and we call ourself a higher, more advanced society...

We've traded the club and the rock for an M-16...

How far have we really come?

Is it not blatantly apparent that the need for communication needs to be taken to a larger level?

OK, let me turn on Fox news...OK, apparently no one in charge realizes this...


You can't speak to a terrorist they are beyond communicating with you argue...

Well, yes when you can't speak very intelligently to your own country how exactly is that going to work talking to someone who is not all that rational?



The walk way in front of our house looks beautiful...

Why?

Because I did not do it, a professional did it...



Professional NLP based communicators are needed as ambassadors!

Lives, money, and face would be saved if this were in practice...


Ever talk to an M16?

Very dull interaction there...

I did not feel heard, or understood and all after the conversation...



I fought a lot when I was young...You know what I learned from all that fighting?

I got absolutely no where...


In contrast, everytime I have talked with people, and really listened and heard their needs, and did my best to share my own...a bond was formed...

No you could not see it with your eyes, you just knew it was there...



Kind of like Gods unconditional love...you can't see it, but you know it's there...



Communication strengths that bond, it renews that sharing...it builds up the "F" word...

Friendship...

Who will you share with today?